Building the first object names at home

Free Parent Guide · Communication & Requesting

When “where’s the ball?” doesn’t get a look yet — how to connect words to things, using what’s already in your home.

A 2-minute walkthrough with Saurabh, Occupational Therapist.

Why this matters

If you ask “where’s the ball?” and your child doesn’t look, they haven’t yet connected the word to the object. Children build this connection by hearing a word at the exact moment they see the thing — over and over, in real life, not from a flashcard.

So we use what’s already in your house, in your routine. Three real objects. The same three. For one week.

What to try tonight

1
Pick three real objects. The katori they eat from, their ball, the spoon you feed them with. Every time it’s used, say the word once: hand over the katori — “katori.” Roll the ball — “ball.”
2
Show and say. Hold the object near your face as you say the word, so they see it coming from you, attached to the thing. Not “this is a spoon” — just “spoon.” Clear and slow.
3
Play “where is.” After a few days, place two objects side by side. Ask “where’s the spoon?” then point to it yourself. They watch your finger; over time they point first.
4
Add a word only when ready. Don’t introduce a fourth object until the first three are recognised. Looking, pointing, and reaching all count as success — they come long before speaking.

Common mistakes to avoid

  • Using flashcards instead of the real objects the child handles daily.
  • Adding a full sentence (“this is a cup”) instead of the single clear word.
  • Quizzing the child in front of guests.
  • Moving to new words before the first set is secure.

When to seek more support

If your child isn’t showing recognition of any familiar object names after a few weeks, or doesn’t respond to sounds consistently, mention it to your paediatrician. A hearing check is a sensible early step.

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Designed and reviewed by Saurabh, Occupational Therapist, NeuroBuddy Clinical Advisory Panel.
When you’re ready

From real objects to first words

First Words Flashcards extend object-naming once your child recognises everyday things — a gentle bridge, not a drill.

See First Words

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